Constantly needing to test people, particularly when it’s your closest romantic partner, can be seen as an extreme manifestation of the emotion of jealousy, called “morbid jealousy”. This can benefit from treatment, and such issues may stem from disturbances in early parent-child relationships.

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Constantly needing to test people, particularly when it’s your closest romantic partner, can be seen as an extreme manifestation of the emotion of jealousy, called “morbid jealousy”. This can benefit from treatment, and such issues may stem from disturbances in early parent-child relationships.